Abantu abaningi babonakala bacabanga ukuthi lo mbuzo usuxazululiwe. Abesifazane abathandi ubhiya. Kodwa, akunjalo? Noma mhlawumbe nje ukuthi abesifazane abayithandi ubhiya obubi obusa emakethe hhayi ngendlela edayiswa ngayo kubo.
Emashumini eminyaka manje, abakwa-brewers, amadoda futhi, kahle, umphakathi, baye basebenza ngaphansi kokungaqondakali ukuthi abesifazane abathandi ubhiya. Lokhu kuhunyushwe ohlelweni lwezokuxhumana nolwazi lokuthengisa oluthi lufane nhlobo nezizukulwane zombili abesilisa nabesifazane abazithengisa kule nganekwane efaka iqiniso.
Ngakho-ke, ake sihlole lo mbuzo, ingabe abesifazane abathandi ngempela ubhiya? Impendulo, impela nje, ayikho. Angikaze ngiye emkhosini wezinyosi , ngivakashele i-brewpub noma nje nginikeze isivakashi sesifazane endlini yami ubhiya ngaphandle kokuthola ukuthi abesifazane abanjengobhiya ngokulingana okufana namadoda. Khumbula, ngiya emphakathini we-geek ngakho abaningi besifazane engihlangana nabo kulezi zimo bazikhethela njengabathandi bebhiya, noma okungenani ukubekezela ubhiya.
Angikwazi ukuphika ukuthi ukukhuluma ngezibalo, abesifazane bavame ukuphuza ubhiya kancane kunamadoda. Ngakho, kungani lokho? Mhlawumbe, kungenxa yokuthi ama-breweries ikakhulukazi abathengisi babo baphatha kanjani abesifazane.
Ukuthengisa
Abaningi besifazane engikhuluma nabo abangathandi ubhiya banesinye sezizathu ezimbili. Okwokuqala ukumaketha ngokumangalisayo kwezocansi ukuthi izinkampani zokubheja zisebenzisa. Izikhangiso ze-TV ezinsukwini ezingamashumi ayisishiyagalombili mhlawumbe zifanekisela kahle lokhu. Laba besifazane bayiziphukuphuku, abalingiswa bezimpahla ezinamahlombe ezilenga ama-dumpy guys ngoba nje baphuza uphawu olufanele.
Lokhu kungabhalwa njengemakethe enobucayi. Emva kwakho konke, abangenangqondo, abesifazane base-sexbot baye basetshenziselwa ukuthengisa cishe konke. Kodwa, izinkampani ezinkulu zokubheja ziveza ukungaqondi kahle kwabo besifazane lapho bezama ukuphuza ubhiya "kwabesifazane."
Ukudla
Esinye isizathu sokuthi abesifazane bavame ukungafani nokuthanda ubhiya yilokho, kubo, lelo bhiya alinambitha kahle.
Yebo, lokho akusho nje ukuqonda, manje, akunjalo? Ngemuva kwalokho, uma ubhiya lungenakulinganiswa, kungani uthengisa noma ubulili.
Ngaphambi kokuvuselela ubhiya ubhiya , ubhiya abuzange buzwakale kahle kakhulu. Iningi lebhiya elidayiswayo e-US lalinesitayela esisodwa, i- paleger ephaphathekile eyayinomzimba omncane, ongenalutho futhi ongenamnandi. I-fizzy, izinto eziphuzi zisacacisa ukuthi yiyiphi ubhiya abantu abaningi. Ngesizatfu esithile, amadoda aphikelela kakhulu ubhiya obubi, mhlawumbe ngoba abathengisi bebazitshela into efanayo abaye babatshela abesifazane: impela inkulumo efana nobhiya futhi inamanzi, abesifazane abashakazi abanjengamadoda wangempela.
Mhlawumbe kungenxa yokuthi abesifazane bangcono kakhulu kunamadoda. Kukhona ubufakazi obuningi bokuthi lokhu. Kubonakala sengathi umuzwa wabo wokunuka nokunambitheka uhlanzekile kakhulu. Omunye we-brewer wase-Australia waze wanquma ukuqasha abesifazane kuphela ukulawulwa kwekhwalithi yobhiya. Yiqiniso, bobabili bobulili bangaqeqeshwa ekutheni kodwa, abesifazane bangathola inzuzo yemvelo. Uma kunjalo, lokhu kuchaza ukuthi kungani bebekezelela kakhulu ubhiya obubi kunamadoda.
Njengoba unikezwe ukunambitheka kwayo okubi nokumaketha okungenakwenzeka, kunengqondo ukuthi abesifazane bavinjelwe ubhiya ngokujwayelekile ngenxa yezenzo nomkhiqizo wezinkumbi ezinkulu, ezingenasici ezingabonakali.
Kuze kube yamuva, ukhetho olulodwa kuphela lwebhiya kwakungobhiya obubi. Manje ukuthi kunezinketho eziningi kakhulu zokuphuza ubhiya, abesifazane bathola ukuthi bathanda ubhiya. Ngiye ngivame ukuzwa owesifazane ethi, ngemuva kokula ukudla ubhiya obuhle, "Angithandi ubhiya kodwa, ngiyakuthanda lokho."