Lokhu kungenye yalezi zindaba ezithintekayo kuphela ezihlobene nokudla kwemifino nokudla, kodwa ngisakwazi nje ukusiza kodwa ngikuhlanganyele. Odokotela abambalwa banquma, ngesinye isizathu, ukutadisha isilimo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi. Noma mhlawumbe babezama ukuthola ukuthi bangathatha kanjani amaphuphu (isizathu sangempela abaya kuso esikoleni samabanga, mhlawumbe?).
Noma ngabe yikuphi, laba odokotela bathole ukuthi indlela yangempela yokuheha abesifazane ayitholakali emva kwalokho, ukuphakamisa izisindo, imigqa ye-cheesy pick-up noma ngisho ne-chocolate kanye nama-roses nokuhlekisa.
Cha, imfihlo yangempela yokwenza amadoda athandeke kobulili obuhlukile isesitokisini . Kulungile, isilimo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi .
Kanjani, ngokuqinisekile, ukudla isilimo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi kwenza abesifazane bakhangwe nakakhulu kubantu?
Kuzwakala sengathi ihlakaniphile, kodwa yonke impela ibilisa kwesinye isayensi elula. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba sihlole inzuzo engavamile yokudla isilimo esidliwayo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi, ake siqiniseke ukuthi sonke sazi ukuthi ama-pheromone aphi ezilwaneni nakubantu.
I-Pheromones ivame ukubhekwa ngokuthi "umqondo wesithupha", yize ijwayele ukusebenza ngaphansi kwezinga elingaziwayo futhi lihlobene ncamashi nomqondo wethu wephunga. Nakuba zingacaciswanga ngokugcwele, okungenani kubantu, i-pheromone yindlela yokuxhumana yamakhemikhali esebenzisa ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu abahlukene. Ezilwaneni, ama-pheromone akhishwe ngumuntu oyedwa angabangela ngisho nokuphendula okuziphatha komunye - okusebenza kahle kumdlalo wokulinganisa ezinhlobonhlobo eziningi.
Ngakho-ke lokhu kuhlobene kanjani nesilimo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi nokwenza abesifazane bakhangwe kumadoda?
Ngokusobala, isilimo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi iqukethe i-hormone steroid yemvelo ebizwa ngokuthi i- androstenene futhi, ngenxa yalesi sakhi, ukuthola isilimo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi kubangelwa ukuthi abantu bakhulume ama-pheromone amaningi ngokushesha, ikakhulukazi i-pheromone ebizwa ngokuthi i-androstenol-engabonwa ngabesifazane-nakuba futhi, hhayi ngokuya ezingeni eligcweleyo.
Kukhona, um, nezinye izinzuzo okukhulunywe ngazo kulesi sihloko futhi, kodwa ukuze ugcine lo mndeni-nobungane, ngizokuvumela ukuthi uzitholele lezo zodwa ngezixhumanisi ze-athikili ngezansi.
Ingabe isebenza ngempela?
Nakuba angizange ngihlangabezane nolunye ulwazi lwesayensi noma lwe-anecdotal ukuphakamisa ukuthi ukudla isilimo esidliwayo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi kuzoba nenzuzo yokwenza amadoda akhangele kakhulu besifazane, kunesizathu esinengi sokukholelwa ukuthi le pheromone ethile, ne-androstenol, ingaba neyempela kuthinta ukuziphatha komuntu. Isayensi isitshela nje ukuthi ukuthi ingasebenza emsebenzini (ngokusekelwe ngezizathu ezichazwe ngenhla). I-it kuze kuwe ukuyisebenzisa empilweni yakho futhi uthole! Uma ubeka isibhamu, ngitshele ukuthi kwenzekani!
Futhi, ukuze ugweme ukwenza leli phuzu futhi i-hetero-normative (futhi usebenzise igama elibiza ama-dollar amahlanu), akukho gama ukuthi ngabe isisindo se-celery pheromone sizosiza yini abangane bethu besilisa nabesilisa abathandanayo (okungukuthi, ingabe i-pheromone ikhuphuka kusuka kwesilimo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi Amadoda atholakale nakakhulu kwamanye amadoda? Ingabe ingenza abesifazane bakhangele kwabanye besifazane?). Kodwa ukudla okunempilo njalo kubonakala kukusiza uma kuziwa ekubukeni nokuzizwa kuhle , ngakho-ke ngicabanga ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukulimaza!
Ufuna ukukuzama?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi udinga yini ukuthola le nzuzo ekhethekile yokudla isilimo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi, akunaso isizathu sokuthi ungafaki izithelo nemifino eluhlaza okwedlulele ekudleni kwakho, ngakho-ke kungani ungayitholi enye isilimo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi?
Ukusakaza isilimo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi nge-bhotela ye-peanut noma ukuwafaka ku-hummus mhlawumbe indlela ethandwayo kakhulu yokujabulela isilimo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi, kodwa nansi izindlela zokupheka zesisindo esidliwayo esinomsoco ukuthi ubani angajabulela, amadoda, abesifazane, gay, eqondile, eshadile noma engashadile:
- Ikhukhamba nesaladi ye-chickpea ku-vinigrette iwayini elibomvu
- Umswakama we-vegan omuncu kanye nesaladi lesomisiwe
- Classic Waldorf isaladi iresiphi nge isilimo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi kanye apula
- Imfucumfucu ye-Vegan "inkukhu" igubha-gazinga ngesilimo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi
- I-fresh vegan gaspacho isobho
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